https://www.ajodo.org/article/S0889-5406(16)30647-3/fulltext
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6110682/
here we see some bone erosion due to the implant.
i wonder if the implant is removed, will the chin be smaller than it was? For example, if the bone erosion is 0,7 mm. Will the chin look 0,7 mm smaller? (i think a number in mm plays big role in the appearance of the chin)

https://www.ajodo.org/article/S0889-5406(16)30647-3/fulltext https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6110682/
here we see some bone erosion due to the implant.
i wonder if the implant is removed, will the chin be smaller than it was? For example, if the bone erosion is 0,7 mm. Will the chin look 0,7 mm smaller? (i think a number in mm plays big role in the appearance of the chin)

The first thing you must figure out before deciding to go all in when making friends with an acquaintance is to see whether or not they want to be friends with you at all. Make sure your not waiting your time.
How do you do that? Just look at how they act around you. Do the smile/laugh when around you? Do they seem energetic/playful? Then they probably do want to be your friend. In fact most people do. It's unlikely someone will refuse to be friends with you "just because" so it's better to take the chance whenever possible. But how exactly do you do that?
--------------------Turning them into friends---------------------
Be a friend- Treating someone as if you're already friends can lead to a natural friendship being formed between you two. It's just as the saying goes "fake it till you make it."
Talk to them- What do friends do a lot? They talk. Communicating more often with this person can loosen the awkward atmosphere and get both of you more familiar with each other. (It also gives you the chance to find a common interest between you two.)
"Get intimate"- Showing likable traits while also "communicating" that you trust them is a good way to deepen your bond. You can do this by pointing out you common interests, bringing out a positive attitude, being more playful with them, and showing your sense of humor. (Sharing something like a secret is a good way to "get intimate." Though you shouldn't do this if your not comfortable sharing something so personal.)
Follow up- What many people fail to realize is when someone says "We should hangout soon" it isn't them saying "I'll look 4 months ahead of my calendar to see when our schedules match". You have to take initiative and follow up on what they said. Ask them when they're free or just invite them randomly. This is especially good to do in a group. Saying "I saw that just came out we should definitely go see it!" Is much easier (at least to me) to say to a group rather than a single person. It also makes you seem more social thereby boosting your "reputation".
Well that was my list of a few ways to get and acquaintance to turn into a friend. Hope you enjoyed and as always I'm open to criticisms/suggestions :)
Ps. It's 4:20am 😭

Das Ganze beruht auf meinen eigenen Erfahrungen. Ich schreibe dies als Serie so wie ich Bock drauf habe.

1. Der Autismus und das Adhs sind untrennbar mit der Persönlichkeit / dem Charakter verbunden.
   
2. bis zur meiner Diagnose hatte ich keine richtige Identität. Jetzt ist dieses Gefühl weg, da alles Diffuse unausprechbare in mir einen Namen bekommen hat.
   
3. Adhs und Autismus entwickelt sich. Man lernt Dinge, zb sozialer Natur. Man lernt coping Strategien, die können langfristig schädlicher natur sein - wie zum beispiel zu trinken. Die können aber auch langfristig positiv sein, wie Sport.
   
4. Man sucht sich einen mentor, oder man wird im Idealfall als Maskottchen adoptiert. Wenn man alles von seinem mentor gelernt hat und sich weiterentwickelt, dann findet der Mentor einen Scheiße, und man sucht sich einen neuen.
   
5. Man realisiert irgendwann, daß die gleichaltrigen um einen herum viel erwachsener sind. Man entwickelt sich langsamer ind allen Bereichen.
   
6. gegebenfalls realisiert man, daß man die emotionale Welt eines 12jährigen hat, und niemals erwachsen sein kann. und das meine ich völlig ernst.
   
7. die Kreativität des adhs und die Analytik des Autismus läßt einen realisieren, daß man Probleme hat, man erkennt die Natur der Problem und die ursachen, man kann die Probleme auch mit Außenstehenden erörtern, aber das heißt nicht, daß man frei mit diesen Problemen umgehen kann, um sie zu lösen.
   

(zum beispiel bin ich fähig, zu erklären, weshalb ich einen meltdown hatte, aber unfähig, in in Zukunft einfach nicht mehr zu haben)

1. Auch wenn man die emotionale Welt eines Kindes hat, so hat man trotzdem die Intellektuelle Welt eines Erwachsenen.
   
2. Meine Naivität wird sehr oft mit Dummheit verwechselt.
   
3. Für mich gibt es entweder nur Freunde oder Feinde.
   
4. Ich brauche sehr lange, um zu merken, daß mich jemand ausnutzt. Dann muss ich sehr lang eüberlegen, wie ich mich wehre.
   
5. Ich verschwendete lange lange zeit, um herauszufinden, WARUM mich jemand ausnutzte, mißbrauchte, mißhandelte und so weiter.
   
6. Man lernt den Unterschied zwischen kognitiver emphatie und intuitiver empathie sehr spät. Ich wußte lange Zeit nicht, daß andere Leute daß intuitiv machen.
   
7. ich kann andere Leute, soziale situationen nur begreifen, wenn ich über sie nachdenke. natürlich wird man darin besser, da sich alles wiederholt, und man Muster erkennt. Bestimmte Abläufe automatisieren sich dann.
   
8. Jahrelang später kommt die erkenntnis, daß ich mich in Situation xyz falsch verhalten habe. Dinge sind mir plötzlich peinlich, weil ich die situation begriffen habe.
   
9. Die Realisation daß es "unsichtbare" soziale Regeln gibt.
   
10. ständig ist man in Alarmbereitschaft, um die Unsichtbaren Regeln und Muster am Arbeitsplatz erkennen zu können.
    
11. als fest begriffene Regeln am Arbeitsplatz sind dann doch nicht so fest, sondern dynamisch, und man macht einen Fehler, und steht als ein Depp oder Arschloch da - weil die unsichtbare Regel plötzlich außer Kraft getreten ist.
    

(ein beispiel: man darf auf der Arbeit rumlungern und aufs Händi gucken - dann mache ich das so. Und wenn der Chef vorbeikommt, dann mache ich das weiter. Das war aber falsch, weil die Regel außer Kraft tritt, wenn der CHef kommt. Das wußte ich aber nicht.)

1. Gegebenfalls sind die unsichtbaren Regeln so Konfliktbehaftet, daß ich gar nicht mehr arbeiten gehen will, weil das so ein Kack Spießroutenlauf für mich ist, und ich einfach die Scheiße nicht mehr mitmachen möchte. Macht euren kack alleine.
   
2. Positive Aufregung ist für mich genauso schlimm wie negative. Darum kann ich Intime situationen kaum ertragen, obwohl ich es gerne möchte.
   
3. Unzählige male hab ich zu hören bekommen, ich solle nicht so verkopft sein. Ich schiebe voll den Hass auf diese leute die sowas sagen. Weil die mir verbieten, daß ich die situation verstehen kann, in der ich mich befinde. Für mich gibt es kein "go with the flow" oder ähnliches, Leben im Moment oder sonst einen Stuß. Ich muss ständig abchecken was die Leute um mich herum von mir wollen.
   

wenn mir das zuviel wird, ignorier ich die einfach. Leute labern mich auf der Straße voll, es ist mir egal was die von mir wollen, weil ich gerade keine Kapazität übrig habe. Ich blende sie einfach aus. Natürlich kommt das rüber als wäre ich ein Arsch. Keine Ahnung was die Leute von mir wollten, als ich neulich an ihrem Garten mit dem Fahrrad vorbeifuhr. sie winkten mir, gestikulierten, die waren zu zweit und naja ich weiß nicht das nervt mich total ab jetzt herauszufinden wie die mein equilibrium stören wollen. also hab ich garnichts gemacht. stoneface.

1. Ich verbringe krankhaft sehr viel Zeit damit, mich mit meiner Umwelt zu vergleichen, um zu gucken, ob Deckungsgleichheit vorliegt. Ständig verändere ich in meinem Kopf das Regelset, was ich zusammengestellt habe. Mache hier eine Korrektur, da eine Verbesserung, da lösche ich eine Regel, da mache ich eine Fußnote.

Except for the hardcore people following this by the minute, regular folks that do take interest on the current hype will soon forget, like they forgot about lazar after a while, rosswell, the phoenix lights, etc… i hear so many news anchors covering this saying something like “ i dont believe the gov can keep a secret of that magnitude for 90 years” but they forget all the whistleblowers from the past… the top official from israel that i dont even remember his name a few years ago, nasa astronauts like buzz aldrin and edward mitchell, david fravor, even bob lazar (felling some flak comming for even mentioning him but… he was right wasnt he?) nothing is gonna change in the big picture untill we see a live alien representative at the un or make the tech public domain, any thoughts?

My (22f) boyfriend (24m) and I haven’t been intimate in over a month
Title basically sums it up. He moved to my city about 5 months ago and we’ve been living together. Things are actually perfect other than the no intimacy part.
When he got here we were business as usual and things have just started to die down slowly so we went from at least 4 times a week to once every two weeks and now he can’t even keep it up for more than 10 minutes. Cuddling is limited to bed time, no making out (even if I initiate) and he hasn’t complimented me in a while, not even a little glance when im getting changed.
Although we’ve had multiple conversations about it and I tell him I find it really difficult to not take it personally he insists its got nothing to do with me and that his libido has just disappeared. He also says its not about the ‘sex’ we do have but more so that something is going on in his head that he can’t quite pin point or knows how to tackle.
Idk. I do believe him but Its taking a toll on my selfsteem. And I want to help him because intimacy is important for both of us but I dont know how.
Do you guys think this is fixable or is a hard conversation overdue?

"As a natural continuation of the previous chapter, where we talked about Self-Awareness, this and the following two chapters will deepen our understanding of awareness — more specifically, Living Awareness. This is because we have used the term Living Awareness here and there throughout this book, to differentiate between mere idea and something experiential, truly alive; and now it’s time to delve deeper into it. Living Awareness is a term that I coined back in 2014 to refer the deeper levels of awareness, which I began to experience at that time. In a nutshell, Living Awareness means of a direct connection to Source of All Living Life — it is a state of pure awareness beyond the limitations of space, time, and form — the union of opposites, in which self and non-self are realized as one. In other words, Living Awareness is a pure state of being that passes beyond the boundaries of our personal existence — a deep inner knowing, an instant realization, recognition and acknowledgment in every moment that the observer and the observed, subject and the object — are the very same thing — One Interconnected Whole.
Before we can delve deeper into Living Awareness itself, it would be beneficial to explain the basic idea behind awareness, so that we can expand upon it later; and by doing so, we can ease the process of understanding when it comes to Living Awareness. Undoubtedly, awareness is one of the greatest gifts that existence has given to human beings — we all experience it, even if we don’t have a true understanding of what it is or how it works. With increasing awareness, one does find life to be more fulfilling — we will learn more about this in the following chapters. So what is awareness? Beyond definitions related to having consciousness, knowledge or understanding of something, awareness is the quality of being awake, with the recognition that there are different ways in which we may or may not be awake.
Awareness is the state or ability to feel, to perceive, to know, and to be conscious of our own existence — within and without. As such, awareness is closely linked to, and intimately connected with consciousness that makes us conscious of our body and mind, our environment and the world around us. This, in turn, makes us aware of our beingness as a living and breathing expression of life. The physical level of awareness is represented by the body and its sensations of the world. Although our sensations are experienced through the body, this awareness is distinct from awareness of sensation within the body itself, which goes on to say that there is more to awareness than meets the eye — a spiritual dimension or component, if you will. The spiritual level of awareness goes much deeper than the ordinary everyday states of wakefulness — it can be said to be a direct connection to all that is — knowing reality, knowing existence, knowing one’s being, and ultimately, knowing God, you see?
Furthermore, all life has awareness in varying degrees, or more aptly, all Life is Awareness — Living Awareness that comes from Spirit. Our current level of awareness separates us from rocks, plants and animals; as human beings, in a human level, we have expanded our awareness to a certain level of self-awareness, which allows us to express sapience — the ability to think and act using knowledge, experience, understanding, common sense and insight. It is this very self-awareness that allows us to think, wonder, ponder, and contemplate topics concerning existence itself; it allows us to conceptualize deeper or larger questions about human existence, to pose and ponder questions about life, death, and ultimate realities. This expansion has not yet reached the level where we would be fully self-realized beings, although we are well on our way towards it." You can read the full article on the website: https://www.infinitequantumzen.info/2023/04/living-awareness-the-heart-of-all-living-life.html
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This year events in Indore are muted. There were few social events last year. Film screenings, Open Mics and Potpourri etc. I'm thinking about tracing the queer history of Indore and we might have an event soon for the same. I know Indore isn't very open minded like other major cities. There has been a lot of resistance in the past (For ex. Cancellation of Pride March last year, Raid on a simple private gay party in 2013 etc.). There is imminent fear of violence and demonization but it is important to educate people about the sexual minorities.
Probably by next week, I'm hoping to conduct a session on Indore queer history followed by an intimate poetry recitation. We can't just live in constant fear without expressing ourselves.
P. S. -
Homophobic people stay away. If you don't know the context and history of queer community in the city and the country then this is not a post for you uninformed opinion.

I had an orgasm from being choked
I’ve been seeing this guy for the past two months or so. We recently decided to be exclusive with each other. Like most people, I have a type. I like men who look extremely innocent, with a beautiful smile, with a well-read mind, and with an innate love for music.
I guess, luck shined on me and I matched with this guy who literally checked all the boxes. What I didn’t know is that he’s someone who’s absolutely opposite in bed, in all the best ways possible.
He’s someone who is not afraid to tell me how he feels about me and how much he wants me. He never overdoes it or tries to overcompensate. He shows me that I am someone he feels deeply for and cares about through his acts. And it’s is so damn romantic.
We met yesterday and came back to my place, and of course we proceeded to do the deed. Now this was the first time we were having sex after being exclusive with each other. And maybe because of that, it felt more intimate.
At one point he had his hand wrapped around my throat, choking me, while he was slow fucking me. He looked straight into my eyes, and told me, “You’re mine”, while choking me and fucking me at the same time.
And I came at that moment. I never knew I can have an orgasm from being choked. PIV feels heavenly but I’ve never cum from it because I need clitoral stimulation.
But I don’t know how this happened, but I came from being choked.
The choking was consensual and we had spoken about it before.

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It was a Samsung phone and as I recall at the time it did show signs of malware hacking including excess heat, flashing the screen and taking random screenshots. I subsequently came to realise very intimate details of my life had been leaked publicly and shared online when my neighbours and relatives started reacting to it. I've taken no action to redress the situation and just tried to get on with my life after being humiliated.
I'm in the UK and the hack happened in 2018/19. What are all the possible ways something like this could come about? Who could've done this?

🇦🇹 Wochenende 08 - 11.06

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Kaum bekommt man einen freien Tag, schon wird das Wetter schlecht! Dafür gibt es diese Woche ein bisschen extra Inspiration damit, ihr nicht nur zu Hause sitzen müsst! 🙂
Also, let´s get to it! 🚀

🤌 Laurin’s Auswahl 08 - 11.06

Eine kurze Übersicht der 5 coolsten Events dieses WE in Wien. Der Link zum Event ist immer im Titel.

1/ Thursday Special: Sommernachtskonzert (Do 20:30 Gratis)

Okay, das ist wohl ein no-brainer diesen Donnerstag. Nicht nur ist der Donnerstag der einzig halbwegs trockene Tag dieses WE, sondern es gibt auch gratis die Wiener Philharmoniker zu hören!
Das ganze findet übrigens im Bereich des Schlosses Schönbrunns statt.

2/ Kleidertausch Party (Fr 16:30-19h - Gratis)

Du hast Lust, deine alte Kleidung gegen neue Styles zu tauschen und dich gleichzeitig mit anderen zum Thema Klima-Aktivismus auszutauschen? Dann schau bei der Kleidertausch Party im Dschungel Wien im MQ vorbei!

3/ Intimes Jazz Konzert (Sa 19-22h - Free)

In der intimen Atmosphäre einer alten Tankstelle gibt es ein Jazzkonzert zu hören. Über den Abend verteilt, wird es eine Kombination von traditionellen Instrumenten mit elektronischen Klängen zu hören geben.

4/ Championsleague Finale Public Viewing (Sa20-23h - Gratis)

Nagut, vielleicht nicht für jeden das richtige aber diesen Samstag findet das Championsleague Finale (ManCity - Inter Milan) statt. Gemeinsam schauen macht bei sowas ja dann doch immer mehr Spaß! Einen coolen Ort dafür bietet die Schankwirtschaft direkt im Augarten.
Alternativ kann man am Samstag auch ein recht cooles gratis Konzert anhören.

5/ Acoustic Sundays (So 19-23h - 15€)

Diesen Sonntag im werden vier Songwriter die Bühne von Wiens etabliertester Underground-Location, dem Chelsea, teilen. Gastgeber und Konzeptgeber ist der in Amerika geborene und in Wien ansässige Künstler Ian Fisher. Also warum nicht mal was Neues hören? 🙂

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Hier eine kurze Übersicht zum Wiener Nachtleben dieses Wochenende:
Thursday

• Vienna Pride Beach Day - Vienna City Beach Club // DJs, Yoga
• FM4 Swound Sound - Usus am Wasser // Electronic
• Space Odyssey - Kramladen // House
• Rooftop Sommer Party - Der Dachboden // Electronic

Friday

• Back on the dance floor - Weberknecht // 90s, 2000s
• Jetlag Disco - PRST // Disco, House, Techno
• Garten von Eben - Kramladen // Techno, House
• Zuckerwatt w/Dubfire - Grelle Forelle // Techno
• Bas Cave & Shake It - Himmel Und Wasser // DnB

Saturday

• Morgengymnastik - SAAS // Techno, Workout :)
• Kollektiv Ost: West & Friends - Badeschiff // House, Techno
• Dancehall BBQ - Usus am Wasser // Electronic
• Freizeit Exklusiv -PRST // Techno
• Werk in Love - Das Werk // Trance, House, Disco,
• Schlaflos im Juni - Pratersauna // Electronic
• Stromklang Festival - Das Werk // Live Concerts, Electronic
• The Hive, Burr Oak, TR Tactics & ChrisSU - Flex // DnB

🎨 A litte bit of culture & other gems

• Lebanon - in a state of unrest // Vernissage Thur 18h
• Meine Welt // Vernissage Fr 19h
• Essbare Kunst - Exhibition // Sa 12-19h
• Vienna Pride Special - Mumok // Sa 12-16h

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• Friday Night Skate // 21-23h

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I am torn between joy and sorrow this weekend. On the one hand, it’s pretty bad weather, on the other hand, we have an extra day off. Well, let’s focus on the good things, there are definitely some fun events this weekend in Vienna! 🙂
Let’s get to it 🚀 !

🤌 Laurin’s Picks 08 - 11.06

A quick overview of the 5 coolest things happening this weekend in Vienna.

1/ Thursday Special: Sommernachtskonzert (Thur 20:30 Free)

Alright, I don’t care if you are new to Vienna or already more or less a local. The summer night concert by the Viennese orchestra is a musical highlight every year. Even if you are not a big fan of classical music, the concert is for free and right in the grounds of the Schönbrunn castle. So next to the impressive music, you have an amazing location. Enjoy! 🎶

2/ Clothing Swap Party (Fr 16:30-19h - Free)

Want to upgrade your wardrobe? Why not check out the clothing swap party with a twist? Bring some of your old cloths and swap them for different ones! If you are interested, you can also learn more about climate change while you are there.

3/ Intimate Jazz Concert (Sat 19-22h - Free)

This Saturday there is a small jazz concert in the building of an old and abandoned gas station. The concert promises intimate vibes, and a mixture of traditional jazz together with some more electronic beats.

4/ Champions-league Final Public Viewing (Sat 20-23h - Free)

Maybe not the right thing for all readers but this is probably the biggest football game of the year. It’s the champions league finals between Manchester City and Inter Milan. There is a great location to watch it outside at the ‘Schankwirtschaft’ located in the Augarten.
Alternatively there is a pretty cool free concert happening here.

5/ Acoustic Sundays (So 19-23h - 15€)

Want to explore some new and exciting live music? Go check out the concert of 4 live bands in Vienna’s most established underground venue ‘The Chelsea’ this Sunday.

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A quick overview of Vienna’s nightlife.
Thursday

• Vienna Pride Beach Day - Vienna City Beach Club // DJs, Yoga
• FM4 Swound Sound - Usus am Wasser // Electronic
• Space Odyssey - Kramladen // House
• Rooftop Sommer Party - Der Dachboden // Electronic

Friday

• Back on the dance floor - Weberknecht // 90s, 2000s
• Jetlag Disco - PRST // Disco, House, Techno
• Garten von Eben - Kramladen // Techno, House
• Zuckerwatt w/Dubfire - Grelle Forelle // Techno
• Bas Cave & Shake It - Himmel Und Wasser // DnB

Saturday

• Morgengymnastik - SAAS // Techno, Workout :)
• Kollektiv Ost: West & Friends - Badeschiff // House, Techno
• Dancehall BBQ - Usus am Wasser // Electronic
• Freizeit Exklusiv -PRST // Techno
• Werk in Love - Das Werk // Trance, House, Disco,
• Schlaflos im Juni - Pratersauna // Electronic
• Stromklang Festival - Das Werk // Live Concerts, Electronic
• The Hive, Burr Oak, TR Tactics & ChrisSU - Flex // DnB

🎨 A litte bit of culture & other gems

• Lebanon - in a state of unrest // Vernissage Thur 18h
• Meine Welt // Vernissage Fr 19h
• Essbare Kunst - Exhibition // Sat 12-19h
• Vienna Pride Special - Mumok // Sat 12-16h

Other 💎

• Grätzlfest Spengergasse 2023 // Local Event, Sat 17-21h
• Friday Night Skate // Fr 21-23h

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Intro/Summary:
I've found myself in a very fortunate position: I have a much higher salary than I anticipated when graduating (due to switching to a more lucrative career path), and with the increasing interest rates it seems to now be a no brainer to pay off my student loan in full ASAP. All considered scenarios seem to come out on top (see bottom of post for detail), with a rough 10-12 year wait until I make back the money with the saving of not making any more monthly repayments.
Simple question: Shall I do it? Thanks in advance for your time and opinions!
Context:

• Graduated 2017
• Plan 2, Loan balance of £66,360.86
• As far as I understand it, interest rate is RPI + 3% with a current cap of 7.1%. RPI announced at March applies from September onwards.
• Salary £73k base, market rate for my current role is around £85k so there's some room for immediate growth (with a job change)
• Average salary increase since starting work has been 18% (albeit that includes a career switch to a more lucrative career path, starting base at graduation was £27.5k)
• Enough money in a S&S ISA to pay off student loan in full today
• I rent and don't own any property
• Current annual repayments of around £4k

What i've considered so far:

• I've read the wiki page
• I've looked at how the interest rate is calculated
• Will I need the money soon? - No: I have money in a LISA for when I want to buy a house, I'm still pretty young, I don't plan on having a big, expensive wedding or children in the next 5 years. My dad is on the older side (some of the ISA money could be for a care home were he to fall ill and require care), but it's not an immediate pressure yet, but would be if i were making this decision in 10 years.
• Moving abroad to EU (which I will be doing 100% certain in the next 3 years) doesn't impact the repayment threshold too much.
• Overpayments without paying off in full today would just delay any benefits as i'd still be making the full annual repayments, just for a shorter time period.
• Used all the recommended calculators, ending up on this one.
• Using the repayment calculator i've done a few scenarios:

1. Conservative (3% salary growth, 3% interest rate from 2025) - Pay off loan in 2042 with total repayments of £96.6k, discounted to today would be £67.2k (>£66.3k current loan value)
2. Realistic (IMO) (7% salary growth, 6.9% interest now, 7.1% till 2026 then taper down to 5% at 2030) - Pay off loan in 2038 with total repayments of £112k, discounted to £81.4k (>£66.3k current loan value)
3. High salary, low interest (10% salary growth, 3% interest rate from 2025) - Pay off loan in 2034 with total repayments of £87.8k, discounted to today would be £69.2k (>£66.3k current loan value)
4. Low salary, high interest (3% salary growth, 6.9% interest rate from 2025) - Pay off loan in 2047 with total repayments of £137.2k, discounted to today would be £84.3k (>£66.3k current loan value)

And only the most vile and antisemitic comments that border on Stormfront-level discourse have been removed.
Which proves that they only moderate the bare fucking minimum to appear like they're not hateful bigots by only getting rid of the blatantly obvious shit while leaving behind the dogwhistle comments. However, checking ceddit/reveddit will reveal dozens of extremely vile comments.
That subreddit doesn't ban Nazis. They only hide them in the closet and tell them not to be overt about their views so that they don't get caught by the admins or the media. They've been doing this shit since the founding of Reddit, and they will never stop.
In fact, the moderators of r-conspiracy only scrubbed the comments of that post after r-AntiSemitismInReddit called it out, only further proving my point- they only moderate to save face, and nothing else.
In my opinion, that's fucking vile. Millions of brave people around the world put down their lives to end the Nazi war machine - they must be horrified knowing what kinds of people their children have become. It sickens me to no end.
Archive link:
https://ghostarchive.org/archive/e5zbd?wr=true
I looked through the comments a second time after mentally readying myself. There's Holocaust denial and people screeching about anti-hate speech laws and antisemitism laws, and one person quotes that nazi pedophile (you know exactly what quote I'm talking about).
This is the most upvoted comment in the entire post:

Shocker: the Rothschild funded and esoterically established political zionist State of Israel caused the assassination of the Kennedy brothers, 9/11 and a litany of other conspiracies not accepted by the mainstream. Almost as if... as if Israel fits into a grand religious conspiracy to bring about Daniel's final world kingdom under the guise of "democracy"

Jeez, calm down. You don't need to hide "da joos" behind a million different dogwhistles. We get it.

If you talk about a certain group of people that definitely doesn't start with a J, you get into trouble

I'm talking about the Jews right now. Am I in trouble? No. We have a problem with hate.

Out of any nation they would do anything to arm themselves after being slaughtered. I do not blame them entirely. ( downvotes poor on in for mis interpreting it as supporting murder). Isreal sent in a group to South America and kidnapped a former ss officer to have them stand trial. It was a major controversy at the time. This also lead to the exposure that the US gov was employing former ss officers. There was a lot of valuable information and advances that could come from them. The Soviet Union did the exact same thing as well.
Should mention the programs hiring former ss officers was largely shut down as there was a growing concern for them to be working against the nations that hired them.
Hey dumbasses. Knowlede is power. PROVE MY FUCKING ASS WRONG.

Reasonable comment, yet it was voted to the bottom of the page. Here's the most upvoted reply:

downvotes poor on in for mis interpreting it as supporting murder

Nah, I downvoted because of this part

after being slaughtered

:)

They downvoted this guy because he sympathizes with the Jews that went through the absolute hell that was the Holocaust - because the subreddit of course doesn't think it actually happen, or that the Jews orchestrated it. Again, absolutely fucking wild considering that my uncle (who was a marine in the 1990s) personally knew people who liberated the concentration camps and were scarred for life. These people have absolutely zero fucking empathy - anyone who denies the Holocaust is 100% a Nazi.
Here's some other Valuable Discussion:

You can demonise the Chinese, you can badmouth the Russians, you can question the Mongolian basket weavers, you can even pillory white people til the cows come home, but you can't... (insert something here), or you'll get reported and suspended.

Never surprises me. They are the real puppet masters. Antisemitism laws are placed to protect them being exposed.

Ah, the typical "JeWs CoNtRoL tHe WoRlD" narrative. This shit has been proven false since 1910. Boo-hoo, get better material. You've never moved on from Protocols of the Elders of Zion.
And for the record, people who spout "anti-white racism" get banned at a higher rate than people who post racism and antisemitism online. If anything, that's the real conspiracy. But they never talk about that, do they? Yawn these people are absolute fucking tools.

What a Cohencidence

G-Get it? Cohen's a Jewish name, hahaha aha! Why aren't you laughing?
Ah, I can't wait until the day that r-conspiracy finally gets the ban hammer.

I was very impressed with this Netflix produced TV show about Fukushima nuclear power plant disaster after being struck by tsunami, didn't know until now how serious was the situation since at that time I was more worried about tsunami (was in SEA in previously struck tsunami area in bamboo shack ~100m from water with nothing in between).
It has 8 episodes, until the last two episodes it's pretty much no non-sense show with no flashbacks, no family/relationship nonsense (only subplot which gets only few minutes is family of one young worker), just straight up to the point, very addictive and thrilling, I watched first 5 episodes in one go and would go further if it wasn't night.
There is basically only one filler episode (7th, second last) and they ruined the ratings with the last episode, which would not be any different if it was written by Japanese gov/power company defense lawyer and it's completely out of place with monologues (skip them if you can), which should be completely cut and just left text in end credits. Of course they don't forget to thank glorious United States, but somehow they forgot to mention SPOILERS giraffe used to sprinkle water was provided by Chinese company Sany Heavy Industry
Score is amazing on par with Chernobyl, wooden acting is meh, which can be caused in general by Japanese culture, so while it may be realistic, it's difficult to understand for westerner lack of shown emotions.
If the show was supposed to show heroism it showed me the opposite, the sheer incompetence of NPP personell and the Japanese gov and it's mind blowing something like this could happen 30 years after Chernobyl. As for heroism - I expected many times people just doing the right thing sacrificing themselves, but to my surprise doing the right thing in Japan is saving your own ass instead taking care about the rest of the country. Obvious solutions (SPOILERS using firefighting helicopters/airplanes and boats to transport stuff) even for amateur (me) are not used until the very last episode, you don't see discussion with experts from other fields or other countries until the last episode.
Don't get me wrong it's pretty great show, just not the way producers intended, it's thrilling, very bingable and showing how Fd up was (is?) the Japanese management saving the face and hiding the reality from public. If they cut one episode and did major cuts in the last episode, it could be even better. CGI is a bit cheap, it would look better, if they went rather with models.
Also how the heck creators ommited mentioning it was strongest ever recorded earthquake in Japan's history with tsunami killing 20K people, it would put distracted gov response and lack of resources in much better context, while in TV show they don't mention it basically at all and acting as if this Fukushima disaster was the only thing on their plate, which could provide at least some excuse for the gov (not for the NPP management, which makes it even worse their unwillingness to sacrifice even one life while there are thousands dying all around).
8/10

My understanding of the situation was not me vs her, it was that we fell into an undesireable dynamic that we did not find a way out of. She had, by her own description, a weak sense of self. She would say that she wanted to dissolve. I have a stronger sense of self, I often want to feel seen or realize my dreams. We got along quite well, loved each other intently and tenderly, loved each other like no one else ever had. She had three medical disabilities: two mental illnesses and a chronic illness. These, combined with the challenges of adulting for the first time, meant that we were dating when she had to learn a lot.
I would get exhausted with her ADHD compounding her ability to manage her chronic illness and vice versa. Her mental state fluctuating a lot daily wore me down. I would try to help her remember about her medication, and help her come up with strategies like making lists so that she could cope instead of flailing about while her health and living situation declined—for instance, piles of trash all over her house, impulsively buying things she struggled to afford, eating junk food constantly that hurts her chronic illness. Her own independent streak led her to not want to listen to me, even though I was being encouraging and thoughtful, but then I would become frustrated, and my attempts at helping became mixed with resentment, which in turn caused her resentment toward me. I could not simply watch her let herself decline and not say something. At times, my negative feedback would become overly critical, but I would try hard to not be condescending—I try to be honest and respect another person in conflict.
I became increasingly worn out by feeling like I was not dating someone who was an independent person. I felt like I had to initiate things most of the time. She fished for complements often. She tried to get my attention in little ways, even when I already was giving her my focus. When I complemented her from my heart or tried to help her process what she was feeling, she seemed to forget it. When I gave her negative feedback, she remembered it vividly. She kinda skated along. She became increasingly exhausted with feeling like I did not like her. She said she felt like I was always annoyed with her in some way. She did not give me feedback like I gave her, and I really wanted her to tell me what she wanted, so that I could listen and respond rather than imagining what she wants.
To be fair, I tend to be an idealistic person, and I dont blame her for feeling that intensity as a lot. I was struggling in our relationship, and things she did would annoy me, but I identified that this is probably the person I will marry, she had said the same about me, and so I decided that the best thing for me to do is to endure and work through this as we grow up together. Long term relationships, especially marriage, require work and learning to resolve conflict together as people grow and change. So much of marriage is about cultivating rich love and working to cohabitate well rather than simply finding an absence of conflict.
I'm focusing on the negative, so here is some positive. We shared our worlds together. Lots of laughs and very intimate conversations and moments. We would take stuffed animals and put them in funny situations and send photos of them to each other. We made up funny stories and talked about deep things together. She felt like my woman, and I felt like her man. We had many conversations about things very near and dear to our hearts. We would care for each other and cry together.
Two months ago, she starts taking mental health medication, and in three or four days the relationship goes from loving and friendly to stone cold from her. She stops talking to me. I try calling her numerous times asking what's up? She was distant and aloof. Finally, she explains she likes the distance between us. She starts to get mad at me over phone and I start to cry. She decides over phone that she wants to be single. I tell her that I want to have this conversation in person rather than over the phone. She tells me over text shes breaking up with me and says theres no point in coming over. I call her and very angrily explain to her how f'd up it is to break up with a long term boyfriend over text when we have been each other's closest, most trusted companions for almost two years. I demanded an in-person, face-to-face conversation. It was like she was flushing all our love out a toilet, like it was all a dream she could walk away from.
When I showed up, she was at first happy to see me, smiling uncontrollably. It felt to me like she was acting girlishly. She tried to explain that she felt like she was losing her sense of self around me, and that she had been codependently bouncing between guys ever since high school. That was an understandable reason for wanting to be single. I tried my best to be supportive, because her feeling like herself is really important, but I was devastated. I loved her, we loved each other so much. She tried to uncling herself from me with as little emotional involvement as possible. She has treated me very starkly ever since. I feel there is an emotional chasm left behind by her swift departure from me. She was such a bright love in my life. I guess I feel wronged by how easily she dumped me, as if her perception of me had been flipped all of a sudden, maybe by the medications. I dont think her wanting to be single is a bad idea. It makes perfect sense. I just wish she had slowed down and thought solidly about us long-term and communicated with me about her desires instead of zooting from me like I was a bad fling. It's like she forgot I was her best friend. I can see the reasons that led up to the breakup, we got into a spiral where she felt she was giving herself away to me, and I was wanting more of her, and we didnt get out of it. She blamed it on me, and I dont think it's all my fault. Relationships are not assured to last, and sometimes they fall apart between people.
I am wondering, Reddit, about your feedback. Also if you think it would be good for me to reach out to her with a letter or about having a conversation for closure or to hold on hope that maybe we will get back together someday? My friends say I dodged a bullet. Somebody who would leave me so quickly and so quickly reinterpret the level of intimacy we shared as a wholly negative thing must have not been as open to me as I was open with her. She seems to have some growing up to do, and being single might be just what she needs to feel more herself.

5 month relationship. He was hot and cold but to the very extremes, he would constantly promise to marry me, make me a wife, but me a ring, we will be together forever (all his exact words) but literally hours later break up with me. I always told him I genuinely wanted to get married so this was very traumatizing to me.
The last time I saw him he asked me if I wanted to sleep over. This was our first time meeting in 3+ months after he broke up with me for the first time and I’m already very reserved/slow to be intimate, and we agreed no sleeping over until the next time. He broke up with me when I got home that night. He complained I wasn’t affectionate enough. Just hours before he broke up with me that 2nd time, he was telling me how much he would miss me until the next time we meet, how it’s gonna be so soon until we move in together, etc. Minutes before he sent that breakup text, he told me he loved me.
During the 2nd breakup I called him out and asked if he even meant any of it, to which he said he will not be responding to that.
Maybe I should mention the age gap if it’s relevant, I am 24f he is 41m. He’s never been married

I've got a beef with my PM insisting that I pay for smoke alarm inspections. Property Managers seem to believe some myth that they'll be 'held liable' if there's a fire and (heaven forbid) someone is injured or worse.
The QLD legislation literally says it’s the Property Managers/Owners and Tenants responsibility to clean and test smoke alarms:
https://www.rta.qld.gov.au/during-a-tenancy/maintenance-and-repairs/smoke-alarms
https://www.qfes.qld.gov.au/prepare/fire/smoke-alarms/faq
It also clearly states you don’t need to be qualified to test smoke alarms.
There's no potential for litigation, liability or any other repercussion for PM's if they follow the basic instructions set out in the legislation.
I've emailed QLD Gov, QFES and 2 of my insurers; All have confirmed there is no scenario in which they would be asking to see any ‘compliance certificate’ from myself or my PM, nor any scenario where they’d be holding an agent responsible or liable for any death or injury in the event of a fire.
They all referred me to the pages above.
QFES confirmed in writing “QFES does not require an Owner or Lessor to obtain or retain a “Compliance Certificate” or similar document.”
Furthermore, QFES also stated “It should be noted that QFES cannot issue enforcement action against an Agent, even if they are performing a requirement on behalf of an Owner or Lessor. This enforcement action (e.g. Infringement Notice or Prosecution) can only be issued against an Owner or Lessor.”
My question to any PM's reading this: If you've followed the legislation to the letter, what do you think you'd be held liable for? What’s the potential litigation you’re so afraid of? Who do you think is gonna sue you?
Please give any example scenario in which you'd be held liable (since the new laws came into effect).
You don’t need to be qualified to test the alarms, you don’t need any certification, and you don’t need to pay someone to do it.
My belief is that PM’s at large have been conned by the smoke alarm companies, that their business, livelihood and reputation could be harmed if they don’t use their companies to carry out these 'inspections', and it's a load of dogs bollocks.
Given the basic, straightforward instructions from the legislation, I believe that paying a company to do the smoke alarm test is a complete waste of money. I hate wasting money on useless things, and I especially hate giving my money to scammy companies.